Gay Astrology - Aries

Aries

Loving your Aries

Not every Aries is stupid enough to actually voice his every smarmy thoughts, but he is thinking them. He considers every man he meets a potential notch on the bedpost. That is until he decides a guy is lifelong love, soul-mate material.

Even if he takes his time in coming on to you, he will not waste his efforts on small talk. If this is going anywhere, he needs to know you can stimulate his mind as well. Then he will decide whether or not to sweep you off your feet. You can be aggressive as you want in your pursuit of Aries, but in his mind you are a passive prize waiting to be won by a guy with cajones.

Attracting an Aries

The techniques for nabbing Mr. Ram are counterintuitive. Though it appears that Aries wants to dominate his mate, it is the struggle for dominance that excites him, not the actual achieving of it.

The unconquerable man keeps his interest longer than the one who rolls over and plays dead. But if he feels that you are a hopeless cause, he will give up and move on to the next guy. When starting relationship, Aries likes to know that the other person will be better off for having him on his side. He will overlook many character flaws in a man who is willing to take care of him.

Breaking up

Admit it. You got away with a lot.

Aries usually doesn’t notice when his partner hides something from him. So you can go along being adored by Mr. Ram while secretly doing super, holding Satanic rituals in the basement, and/or planning to move to Nepal. But then you drop a chair on his foot or break a door—and he knows it is all over. Aries looks for symbols all the time. You can argue that he is reading too much into a small detail. He is. But Aries often reaches the right conclusion for the wrong reasons.

Any rupture with Aries can be repaired with well-spoken apologies---except one. If you make Aries doubt himself, there is no anger, no hurt, only silence. He has no defense but to turn his back on you and walks away.