Showing posts with label capricorn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label capricorn. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Gay Astrology - Capricorn

Capricorn

Loving your Capricorn
He has been watching you but he will not approach. It is not that he fears rejection. It is that he fears everyone finding out that he was rejected. If you make first overture, he will still be afraid. This time the fear is that his friends will find your pairing ridiculous. What if they laugh at him!
It is medically proven fact: Capricorns can die of embarrassment.
This is why getting started with them is so torturous.
The first conversation is polite, but noncommittal. You both feel the spark, but Mr. Goat leaves himself an out—will your next meeting be a date or hang-out session for two buddies? He keeps the question open.
Capricorn is more comfortable if you are introduced by a mutual friend whom he can pump for into after you are gone. Otherwise, he will scrutinize your clothing, social manner, and conversation to figure out your income, education, and ambitions. If you seem like a man going nowhere, the pressure will be off him.
If, on the other hand, you seem to be a man of substance, it all gets more complicated—and slower. When Mr. Goat is trying to begin what he hopes will be a lasting relationship, he takes his own sweet time.

Attracting a Capricorn
Most men fall in love with looks and personality. For Capricorn, your career, status, and ambition are also part of the package. He is not necessarily looking for wealth or power, but for someone is “going somewhere.”
Capricorn is most comfortable in relationship where the balance of power is uneven. Father/son, mentor/intern, and teacher/student are the models to go far. He can take either role (though he prefers the senior position).
Mr. Goat is also interested in your relationship to your family. So though he does not want to hear that you live with Mom, he does want to know that Mom matters to you.
Because the words lie, for Capricorn affection cannot be stated, it must be proven. Simple actions like wiping up his spilled drink or lending him few bucks till he gets to an ATM have large significance for him. Only in time, after quite few dates, will Mr. Goat open up his heart to the possibility that you might just, if he is lucky, be halfway decent guy.


Breaking up
Capricorn is more interested in making the relationship work in practical terms than in fulfilling some abstract ideal about what a relationship should be.
Still, there are lines you cannot cross—even in the midst of a breakup:
1.Do not lie to Capricorn.
2.Do not blame Capricorn for your problems.
3.Be scrupulous with money.
4.Do not tell Capricorn’s secrets to the whole world.
5.Do not mock Capricorn.
He was never an easy man to love. His incessant demands for reassurance, which you knew would not be reciprocated, were piggish. However, unless you are some mean-ass Scorpio, you will never beat Capricorn at the revenge game, so do not try.
Mr. Goat hopes there is some way you can reconcile. Even if he initiated the breakup. He believes that everything in the world is in scarce supply, including love. After you walk out the door, he is not certain he will find any more. Be kind to him now, and he will remember it for long time to come.