Gay Astrology - Cancer

Cancer

Loving your Cancer

His voice is as soothing as warm milk. Soon you are revealing to Mr. Crab secrets that you never tell strangers.

In conversation Cancer gives very little hard data about himself, but you still feel you know him. Cancer is much more comfortable telling you anecdotes about friends and family. These stories imply much more about Cancer’s personality than he is willing to share with you directly. But what they imply only raises more questions.

As you sense him responding to your unspoken questions, you know that this mysterious man has the power to reach all those hidden corners of your heart.

Will you let him?

Attracting a Cancer

If you remind Cancer of his old boyfriend, you are off to a good start.

Cancer is always looking for vehicle to his lost past. A boy who reminds him of some past affair has a very real (if very strange) advantage.

The clincher though is need. He wants to be needed, so your weaknesses count more with him than your strengths.

Love takes time for Mr. Crab. He is warm, but he is wary. When not pursuing his fantasy wild boy, Cancer looks for men who have settled down, have a little money, and know their direction in life. Because he is not afraid to commit, Cancer wants a man dependable enough to be worth committing to.

Breaking up

The make-or-break moment comes when Mr. Crab’s attentions grow so smothering that you yell at him, “Get a life!”

Cancer discovers who he is by living through others. If you are lucky, Cancer will turn to passive-aggressive withdrawal of affection, which is designed to force you into calling it quits, thus allowing Cancer to appear the victim.

The less pleasant alternative is for Cancer to turn his anger and frustrations inward. If this happens, you will see an erosion of self-confidence as he assumes the blame for everything wrong between you.

The loneliness of breaking up is more than sad for Cancer. With time, though, he will heal and heal completely. But he will not forget the despair he went through. So if you wish to remain friends, it will take a lot of work and a lot of patience on your part. You must also accept that Mr. Crab will never trust you again.