Gay Astrology - Gemini

Gemini

Loving your Gemini

While talking to you, he is scoping out the room for other men. In case you missed it, he then jokes about scoping out the room for other men.

Gemini is a perpetual motion machine powered by contradictions. He can be sharing without being generous, open without being totally honest. He is sometimes warm without caring and cold without hating. And in an instant his mood will change.

Geminis are always cute, though rarely gorgeous. The attraction is not in their looks but in the excitement of their mercurial temperament.

Attracting a Gemini

The Gemini mind is restless, so he does not like to get bogged down in messy emotions. He needs to be anchored by a boyfriend who responds with strong emotion to the things that matter most.

Gemini’s man cannot be completely silent type. Even that Mr. Twin frequently interrupts others when they are talking. He also likes to be interrupted himself. For him the most exciting man is one who voices interesting challenges and positions contrary to his own.

If Gemini is attracted, it is part because he sees you as a caretaker. If he stays, it is because you give him a long leash. On the other hand, a man who threatens to restrict Gemini’s access to the big world does not have a chance. So, let your come-on be lighthearted and half-joking so he can indulge his ambivalence before he says yes.

Breaking up

Obligation has little meaning for Gemini. His commitment to you is one day at a time. Those days can add up to years. Or not. If he stays with a man it is because he wants to. If he does not want to, there will be no foot dragging or pretense.

After you have been apart for a while, Gemini will make friendly overtures to you. He feels that just because the lover part did not work out, does not mean you should give up on the friendship.

It may get sticky when he comes on to you after the breakup . . . and he will. But whether you choose to bed down with him or not, you can be sure that Gemini will always be there if you are up for a bit of fun.