Monday, November 26, 2007

Gay Astrology - Virgo

Virgo

Loving your Virgo
You have been under observation—even if only a few minutes. No Virgo acts in attraction alone. He needs to see exactly what you have to offer.
Mr. Virgin knows how to make the most of his young features and physical grace. He plays the perfect audience, appreciative of who you are, so there is no need to pretend you are anything you are not.
Of course his Stepford-wife niceness can alter at any moment. The second you shade the truth or unthinkingly let some inaccuracy cross your lips, he will leap down your throat to rip the offending words out of your vocal cords before the sentence is complete.
Then it is back to niceness as if nothing had happened.

Attracting a Virgo
Other men look for a relationship that offers security, but Virgo looks for safety.
He is much more comfortable playing sugar daddy himself to man with potential, than depending on a boyfriend for his future security. But he does need to know that his man will not hurt him. And Virgo defines the word “hurt” broadly.
He wants to know that he can operate you—that you will always respond in a consistent ways. Unexpected behavior on your part is a “hurt.”
He asks for little else besides consistency. Virgo does not need the most beautiful or most sensitive man in the world, as long as he can comprehend your behavior. In fact, your flaws are in important factor in winning his love. He enjoys them because they make him feel needed. Virgo pretends to have all the answer, so you do not have to. Asking him to solve your problems for you will only strengthen the bond between you.
Honesty works with Virgo. Better be truthful, because in time he will always find the things you hide.

Breaking up
Because he is unable to see the forest for the trees, any argument becomes a listing of grievances rather than a substantive effort to get at the root issue dividing you. If you want to salvage things, you have to get it rolling then hope Virgo climbs on board. It is best to make your expectations clear. If he knows what the ground rules are, he can decide whether or not he wants to stay. If the ground rules are unclear, he will probably leave because the relationship lacks focus.
If it comes down to a choice between fighting for you and leaving, he will always leave. The dramatic scenes are too nerve-wracking for him. To Virgo, the deception is simple self-defense, protecting him until he has the wherewithal to walks out.

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