Loving your Libra
He is a comfortable man. Cute enough. Smart enough. But not threatening in any way. You might think that this one is too good to be true. And you would be right.
When you first meet Libra, his deflector shields will be up and he will be practicing evasive maneuvers. He will withhold his true self until he knows what kind of man you want. Then he will emphasize those parts of his personality that you will most love.
But that may be quite a few dates away. At first meeting he is checking you out. He wants to know if you are involved (and perhaps hiding that he already has a boyfriend). He is subtly throwing out conversational topics that will give him a clue to your feelings about commitment. He is examining your clothing to get a sense of your personal style.
Fail to meet his standards and you will go home alone---without his number.
Attracting a Libra
Minutes after meeting him you know that he is bringing looks, smarts, and highly developed interpersonal skills to the table. And he knows you know. So his question is: What have you got for me?
He is not a gold digger looking for a sugar daddy. It is not money he is after. He just needs to be certain that he will not be the only one supplying juice in this relationship. So your artistic sense, your humor, your ambition, you ingenuity, or something has to match and balance what he has to offer. Fairness is everything to Libra.
Libra almost always puts others first. He needs a man who will put him first. If you want him, let him know that you value him.
One last note: Look good. Libra will rule you out on the basis of aesthetics faster than for any other reason.
When Libra breaks up with you, it is quick and clean. When you break up with Libra, the process is a convoluted and painfully bloody as beating a baby seal to death with a teaspoon.
The real issue with Libra that ends relationship is the need to be the perfect couple. You might begin to suspect that all the efforts Libra makes to strengthen the relationship are not for the sake of his love for you, but his love of the relationship itself.
He has defined himself as half of an “us.” And now that you are gone, he does not know who he is anymore. The man who always the calm rational one in the relationship turns into a nut job.
The only cure is for him to find a new lover or best friend to spend time with. And the speed of his recovery. When he finally finds someone else, can make your head spin.