Gay Astrology - Sagittarius

Sagittarius

Loving your Sagittarius
Sagittarius is always hitting on men who are out of his league. Often he is rebuffed, yet he is never discouraged. As insecure as he is about his big butt, and though failure is always possible—or even likely—Sagittarius does not want to let an opportunity go by if there is even the slightest possibility of something magical happening.
His laugh may be a bit big for the room. The swooping gestures are also outsize. This cowboy seems unable to contain himself indoors.
Still, it is hard to get seriously annoyed at Sagittarian blunders because the man is just so gosh-darn sweet. When someone is so open, trusting, and willing to expose himself, getting impatient would be like shooting a puppy through the heart. And he is so persistent that the attention is flattering. Or harassing, depending on your point of view.
Sagittarian is looking for the next best thing. If he decides that you are it, he will spare nothing to make you happy.

Attracting a Sagittarius
You have to let Sagittarius be Sagittarius. To mix metaphors, if you rain on his parade, you will be out in the cold.
Sagittarius is a man in search of something to believe in. his love of new fads and fashionable social causes stems from the hope that each new thing might prove to be the “one.” He is that way with the relationships too. Sagittarius does play around, but keeps hoping for true love.
However, every relationship disappoints Sagittarius in some way. Thus he is happier pursuing you than catching you. Before he has caught you, he can persuade himself that you are a god. Once he has you, he cannot deny your flaws.
Mr. Horseyman is drawn to energy. He prefers younger men or, at very least, men with youthful, forward-looking spirit. Any connection you have to fame or power helps. Plug him into an important network, introduce him to persons with impact, and Mr. Horseyman is yours.
The human body is his obsession, so let him see you dancing or playing some sport. You do not need big muscles, but you had better be able to use the ones you have got.
Most of all, Sagittarius needs to know that you will not suffocate him with expectations. He needs to see that the relationship with you will not hamper his freedom, but rather can become passionate adventure shared by two.
Sounds great? Unfortunately Mr. Horseyman feels that this vision of a great gay life exempts him from the little things like being sensitive to his partner. You already heard him put his foot in his mouth. Wait till he zeros in on your weakness.

Breaking up
If you want to push Mr. Horseyman’s buttons, give him an order. Or better yet, an ultimatum. Sagittarius can overlook any sin except the attempt tp control him. Even if you win, you lose, since he will bolt at the first opportunity to escape a restrictive relationship. The harder you try to hang on to Mr. Horseyman the more he will pull away. Your jealousy will become an excuse to cheat.
It was clear from the day one that he could not keep a secret. To avoid the wrath of Horseyman, you need to placate him. Absolve him from guilt. Tell him that the blame lies with you and that you need his help to regain your self-respect. (Remember: His gullibility is your best ally!)
As mush as he liked having an unconventional relationship, he will also like having an unconventional breakup. Since Sagittarius tends to look at the bright side, he might think of the breakup as a new beginning. After a time, Sagittarius will want to be a friend. Any residual bitterness on your part will baffle him, since he will only be able to remember the good times you had together.